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The shooting at Sandy Hook that took 20 children and six adults was a tragedy that should never have happened. But thankfully, it seems that something good may be coming out of the tragedy: today, New York leaders passed the first new gun control laws since the tragedy in early December. The bill was signed by Governor Andrew Cuomo, a Republican who has embraced gun control and made it a central part of his agenda, saying “At what point do we say, ‘No more loss of innocent life’?”

Frankly I agree, so I’m glad that the new law comes with so many provisions meant to protect our citizens (not take away guns as 2nd Amendment fundamentalists believe). In addition to an assault weapons ban that prohibits the further sales of any guns with one military feature and the registration of those already in private ownership, the law requires immediate background checks, bars assault weapon sales over the Internet, and, because of the shooting of firefighters in Webster last month, lengthens the sentence of those convicted of shooting first responders.

Plus, the number of rounds in a magazine has been decreased from 10 to 7, put tougher restrictions on the sales of ammunitions and guns and, in what I see as a very good move, requires therapists to notify authorities if they feel a patient made a credible threat to use a gun illegally would be required by law to report it to the authorities.

That last part I see as the basis for a new episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

As other states are considering bills with new gun control measures, I hope they follow New York in example. I’m talking to you, Ohio Governor Jon Kasich. Seriously, you signed a bill that allows firearms in the garage of the statehouse. Do you want to play a video game or reenact a movie scene in the statehouse garage with actual guns? Are you insane?

However, not everyone seems to be thrilled with the new spirit of gun control. Representative Steve Stockman, a Republican from Texas whose last term of office was in the 1990s, says that he’s willing to go as far as filing articles of impeachment if President Obama threatens his Second Amendment rights with new gun control legislation. Hate to break it to you, Mr. Representative, but the last time you were in term, there was an assault weapons ban, and the world did not end and the 2nd Amendment did not die during the ten years it existed. If anything, it came out stronger after the law expired.

Oh well. Here’s to a safer country and less lunatics running around trying to kill us or arm us all.

At Ohio State, we have an annual charity drive called Buckeyethon. Those who volunteer collect money for research at Nationwide Children’s Hospital here in Columbus and after collecting $100, get to participate in a 12-hour dance marathon. My family can attest, I love to dance, and I also love supporting charities when I can. Today I collected my last donation for Buckeyethon, and I wanted to thank the people who made that possible in a uniquely Rami Ungar way. So thank you to all my sponsors:

Wendy Ungar and Wendy Mohr, also known as Ima and Wendy. You guys are wonderful teachers and you’ve raised me well. Plenty of blessings upon you and the cats.

Rabbi Michael Ungar, also known as Abba. You took time out of your busy schedule to donate online when I couldn’t figure out how to use the online portal. Plenty of Shabbos naps for you, which I know you’ll appreciate.

And Sudip Roy and Ankit Gupta, the two who taught me how to do Sahaja meditation. Jai Shri Mataji, and I thank you so much for all your support and teaching.

Thanks to these four, I managed to get well over my needed amount. I can’t wait to turn in the donations tomorrow. So thanks everyone, and now I can’t wait for Buckeyethon’s dance marathon! I know you’ll be partying with me in spirit.

If the me of a year ago knew what I was doing these days, he may have a heart attack. Or possibly slap his future self. Or some combination of that.

Yes I, Rami Ungar, resistant to new technology and social media crazes, have gotten a Twitter. Why? For the same reason I got a Facebook: to spread my writing to those who may not be on this blog but may be on other social media websites. This twitter account of mine, @RamiUngartheWriter, will focus exclusively on my writing. Already I’ve published a couple of tweets advertising my upcoming collection The Quiet Game: Five Tales To Chill Your Bones. I’m very excited and I hope I gain a followship soon. You’re welcome to follow me if you like. Just know this: I’ve got a scary picture as my profile pic and it may cause some nightmares.

And no, it’s not of my face. Much scarier than that.

Also, I don’t know if any of my blog followers got a notification (do they send notifications for pages?), but I set up a new page that lists my upcoming books. Which means of course at this point only The Quiet Game is on that list, without even a picture, but I plan to rectify that soon. Check it out if you like, and have a great weekend.

The Sunshine Blogger Award

Posted: January 9, 2013 in Living and Life
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I’m happy.

Wouldn’t you know it? I got nominated for another one of these meme blog things, and this time it’s the Sunshine Blogger Award, the award for those who use their blog to positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere. Thanks to my friend Matt Williams (http://storiesbywilliams.com/2013/01/08/sunshine-blogger-award/) for the nomination; it means so much to me.

So as part of getting nominated for this award, I have to answer some questions. Here they are:

1. What is your passion: Oh, that’s an easy one. Writing stuff that scares people. If I get people scared from something I created, I consider it an accomplishment. In fact, this past Thanksgiving my grandmother told me she’d become very scared reading a science fiction short story I’d written. I was high on that for about three hours afterwards.

2. Favorite time of year: Summer. I’ll take sunscreen and sweat any day over freezing winds and snow. Besides, some of my best memories are associated with the summer.

3. Favorite book: That’s a tough one. I read so much I hardly have time to settle on one. I guess Alice in Wonderland, an influential storybook that hides underneath its whimsical nature a dark world of hallucinations, violence, and possible sexual deviancy on the part of Lewis Carrol. Besides, so many books and mangas I like are based on Alice, it’s hard not to like it.

4. Favorite movie: Another tough one. I’m going to have to say Schindler’s List, not only because it’s such an amazing film, but it inspired the book series I plan to write someday that’ll be my personal magnum opus.

5. Favorite animal: I love all animals, but I’m especially a cat person. I’ve grown up with cats and I feel most comfortable with them. My favorite type of cat is a tiger; I know they want to eat my face off, but I can’t help but want to hug them.

6. Favorite time of day: Late afternoon, early evening. Things are winding down, you can enjoy a good meal with friends and family, and afterwards you can watch the latest episode of your favorite crime or drama series.

7. Favorite flower: Roses. They’re romantic and filled with secret meanings.

8. Favorite nonalcoholic beverage: Diet Dr. Pepper, and I can’t drink yet.

9. Favorite physical activity: A nice relaxing walk on a warm day. Makes winter especially difficult.

10. Favorite vacation: When was the last time I went on vacation? I can’t remember, it was so long ago! But if I could go anywhere for my vacation, I’d probably visit either Germany, Japan, or Israel. Germany because I’m interested in the European theater of WWII, Japan because I’m a huge fan of the culture and of manga/anime, and Israel because I’m an Israel-loving, Zionistic Jew who feels connected to my roots.

Well, I’ve answered all these questions. Time for the nominations:

You! Yes, I’m nominating you, dear reader. Every time someone reads, comments, and/or likes something on my blog, it brings a bit of happiness to my day. So you are the nominee. Congratulations, and have a most wonderful day!

Ever since I decided to skip the traditional publishing route and go into self-publishing, I’ve had people in my head and people I’ve known for years telling me that it’s a big risk, especially since depending on how I do it I could end up spending a lot of money and not get a lot out of it. Sometimes these voices do worry me.

But I stay optimistic, I stay strong, and I plug ahead without hesitation or fear. And I think things will work out for me. Sometimes you just got to take risks and say “F**k it, I’m going to do it.” Which is definitely my intention.

And if you don’t believe me, believe Anne Rice. She’s taken her own shares of risks in her lifetime, and she’s willing to talk about them.

I signed up for another creative writing course this semester, though this one you have to apply and submit a portfolio to get in. The teacher was worried that I’d be unable to do well in the class because the focus of the class is literary fiction and genre fiction, which I prefer. But hey, some of my ideas straddle the border between literary and genre, so I might just survive.

In the meantime, I’m looking forward to the first class. I volunteered to write a short story and submit it to the class to be workshopped on the first day. The short story I’m submitting is “Addict”, one of the short stories I wrote during winter vacation. “Addict”, for those of you who don’t know, is based on some of the experiences of a friend of mine who was addicted to sex and pornography, and I plan on adding it to a collection of short stories I hope to put out by the end of the semester.

“Addict” is literary enough that I can submit it to the class and have them take a look over it. Just earlier today, I decided to take one more look at it before I submit it. I’m hoping they like this story; I wrote it out in a day, and it’s rare for me to be able to write any short story that quickly with that sort of flow. Whether they like it or not, I think it has potential, but I’m glad I’m having somebody look at it beforehand, because then I get an unbiased opinion.

I’ll let you know what the class thinks when I’m done with the workshop. Hopefully I won’t have to do too much editing, though that’s usually easier than the writing.  At least I’ll get the workshop out of the way rather quickly, and on the plus side, I’ll be able to set the tone of the class for a bit with this short story.

All for now. Blog on you later.

You read the title, I’ve finally gotten a Facebook profile. And I’ve learned I should only play Angry Birds when I’m extremely bored and can’t find anything else to do, among other things.

So far I haven’t gotten into the whole checking-everyone’s-profiles-and-statuses thing yet, but I think that’s a good thing. I got this page just to spread the word on my writing without being a total braggart or a total bore about it. However I have found old friends that I fell out of touch with, and I did find a guy I was bullied by and made my peace with him. Not all that bad, right?

Plus, I get to play Angry Birds, but like I said, I should wait for a better time to play it, when I’m unoccupied by anything and can’t think of anything else I want or need to do.

So I guess in the end, Facebook is a useful little tool after all. But don’t expect me to get too excited about it; I still view it as unnecessary. And if any other WordPress bloggers have visited the Freshly Pressed page recently, you can see others who share my opinions.

All for now, I’ve got a short story to finish up. Bye

2012 in Review

Posted: December 31, 2012 in Living and Life
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Awfully big, isn’t it?

Like a lot of people, I got my report from WordPress on how I did this past year. Let’s just say I got a lot of views, and a lot of comments. My highest grossing article was–you guessed it–my review of The Wolf Gift by Anne Rice, which got 580 views on July 6th, 2012. My highest commenter was my friend Matt Williams with 57 comments, followed by my Uncle Joel with 28 comments. Of the 99 countries that had people visiting my blog, most of my views came from the United States, with Canada and England close behind. And my biggest referrer was Facebook, specifically Anne Rice’s Facebook (I’ll be forever grateful to her for that little bit of recognition).

But besides blogging, I did a bunch of other stuff; I finished my first year of college and finished my first semester of college (OSU just switched to semesters, in case you didn’t know); decided to self-publish; had two short stories published, with a third in June; wrote a ton; finished a novel in six months; and a whole bunch of other things.

I’m hoping for some good stuff next year as well. I hope to publish a collection or novel soon; possibly be Freshly Pressed; more comments and followers; and some other stuff I’m not going to list here.

Thanks for a great year, and I hope to update you with a whole bunch of other great stuff soon.

Happy New Year,

Rami Ungar the Writer

500 Comments!

Posted: December 27, 2012 in Living and Life
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Two milestones in one day! Talk about a milestone!

Anyway, I’ve reached 500 comments, which I’m so happy about. More than likes, comments are a great way to interact with readers and bloggers, and they’re also a form of love on the Internet, at least for me they are. I’m so happy that I’ve also reached this milestone today, and I would like to thank science fiction writer, fellow blogger and good friend Matt Williams (http://storiesbywilliams.com/) for getting me to this milestone with the three comments he made today on my blog. Thanks Matt!

And once again, I’d like to thank everyone who’s ever commented, liked, deigned to follow, or just simply read Rami Ungar the Writer. You’re all there for me, supporting me as I try to make it in the world of fiction writing, and your support means so much to me. Thank you.

1000 Likes

Posted: December 27, 2012 in Living and Life
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Today was not only my best day for likes on Rami Ungar the Writer, I also surpassed the 1000 Likes mark. Holy crap! I did not think I would ever get this far back when I first started, and just getting a view on my blog was something to be proud of.

Thanks to everyone who’s liked, commented, or read something they enjoyed on this blog. I hope you’ll continue to stay with me and cheer me on as I try and become a professional novelist of horror/science fiction/fantasy stories.